Friday, October 31, 2008

Kuingin Kamu

Demi semua yang aku jalani bersamamu
kuingin kau jadi milikku
kuingin kau disampingku

Tanpa dirimu ku hanya manusia tanpa cinta
dan hanya dirimu yang bisa
membawa surga dalam hatiku

Kuingin engkau menjadi milikku
aku akan mencintaimu
menjagamu selama hidupku
dan aku kan berjanji
hanya kaulah yang kusayangi
ku akan setia disini

bagaikan tangan sang dewi cinta
yang berhiaskan bunga asmara
dan membuatku tak kuasa

Di setiap arung gerak
tersimpan di hati kecilku
bahwa dirimu terindah untukku

Selama ku masih bisa bertahan
selama ku masih bisa bernapas
selama Tuhan masih mengijinkan
kuingin selalu menjagamu

Selama ku masih bisa bertahan
selama ku masih bisa bernapas

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Men's Spirituality

Have you ever stopped and asked yourself, Who am I? What am I? or Why am I here? Well, as human beings, many of us ask those same questions everyday of our lives. Unfortunately, however, we never truly find the answers to those questions, and they remain mysteries forever.

Religion vs. spirituality

Believe it or not, humans were historically spiritual beings first and foremost before becoming religious beings. So what is spirituality? Well, I'll tell you what it's not . It's not an organization. It's not a set of rules and laws. It's not scripture. It's not history. It's not ritual. And finally, it's not faith.In a few words, spirituality is the attachment to all that concerns the life of an individual's soul. Religion, on the other hand, is the attachment to all that concerns the life and faith of a society or culture.

Are you spiritual enough?

In general, women tend to be more spiritual by nature than men. That probably has to do with the fact that women are emotional creatures, while men are more rational. Recently, however, rationalism and logic have been playing a big part in spiritual experiences. Therefore, men have become more aware of their spiritual side.In this stressful world we live in, spirituality plays an important role for men who want solutions to their problems and answers to their questions. The most common question many men ask nowadays is, Why in the world do I have to get up at 6am, rush out of my house, drive an hour in traffic, work my butt off for 10 hours a day (9 to 5 doesn't exist anymore), get no appreciation, drive back for 2 hours (in more traffic) to get home, slop on the couch and watch TV until I fall asleep? and repeat the process everyday of my life? If you already have this kind of lifestyle, chances are that your spiritual side is almost non-existent.But if you are one of those people who loves waking up early simply to see the sunrise, loves to drive in traffic because it gives you more time to listen to your favorite band, loves your job because you learn something new each day, and loves some quite time alone at night to reflect upon your life, then you, my friend, are a living Zen master and don't even know it.

I can see the light!

1. Take time off

It is extremely important to make time for yourself during the day, week, month, or even year. Time is after all a precious commodity, and something that we can not take for granted. The next step would be what to do with that time.

2. Start a journal

Writing your thoughts and feeling down in a private journal a few times per month helps you to become in tune with your inner self. Each time you write, try not to think too much, just let your thoughts flow and your pen move. It's always interesting to look back on your journals and see how you evolve spiritually over time.

3. Exercise

Yes, a healthy body almost always leads to a healthy soul. Exercise refreshes your mind and greatly diminishes stress and worry, two key factors you need to eliminate in order for your spirit to thrive.

4. Read

Nowadays, more and more men are regressing to watching TV or listening to the radio instead of picking up a good book and reading. Lack of time might be a huge factor in this problem.Once you take care of that, however, reading can be the most enjoyable thing you do during the day. Its main benefit is that it stimulates your imagination and creativity, not to mention your vocabulary. Imagination is an important part for the next tip.

5. Meditate

The word itself conjures up images of mystical people levitating in mid-air with serenity around them. The truth is, anyone can do it, and it's not hard at all (except the levitation of course, which is just nonsense). Here is a meditation technique I teach my martial art students:

-Sit down cross-legged on the ground and make sure you are comfortable. Your hands on your knees, and your back and shoulders straight. Slightly tilt your chin down, and close your eyes.

-Start breathing slowly and deeply -- in through the nose, out through the mouth. Focus only on your breathing for 5 minutes and try bringing in as much air into your lungs as possible.

-While breathing, focus on contracting and releasing your abdominal muscles in order to fully contract and dilate your diaphragm, which will, in turn, open your lungs more.

-After 5 minutes, visualize all your day's problems, and one by one push them aside in your mind. Make them disappear. All that should remain is total blackness.

-And finally enjoy this void, while maintaining your deep breathing and falling more into a relaxed state.

-If stray thoughts come into your mind, don't fight them. Accept them, acknowledge them, and then push them aside.You can meditate as often as you like, at any time or place (except while driving of course), and for as little as 5 minutes to as long as an hour.

6. Be positive

Optimism also destroys worry and stress, and an added advantage is that others will become influenced by your own optimism and share your happiness. Positivity plays a key role in spirituality.There you have it. Use these tips and try to find your own spirituality.

It may not happen right away, but nonetheless, the journey to a more spiritual life is full of interesting learning experiences that you will treasure for a lifetime.

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Terlalu aku menghargai dirimu...

Tidak mampu aku ungkapkan dengan kata2, bertapa aku terlalu menghargai dan menyayangi dirimu. Kau terlalu berharga buat diriku. Baby, terima kasih hadir dan temani aku. Kau membuatkan berasa terlalu bahagia.

Friday, October 17, 2008

i was sick

ahuk huk huk....i was sick, today dah masuk hari ketiga. Selesema, batuk n demam. Adoiii..merana dibuatnya..Sekarang musim org demam, aku kena sekali, gara-gara berjangkit ngan my baby....duduk sebelah, borak-borak, last2 aku yang kena demam...waaaaaa.....x larat neh!...

Monday, October 13, 2008

My baby birthday

Today is my baby birthday.

Happy birthday to you...

Happy birthday to you...

Happy birthday to baby...

Happy birthday to you...

May Allah bless you and love you so much.

with love


Wednesday, October 08, 2008

Mamma Mia Memang besh!

Semalam, lepas balik dari kerja, seperti biasa aku and my colleagues and my baby lepak kat KL sentral. we had some food there before proceed to Mid valley nak tengok wayang. Cerita apa? Hah neh aku nak citer kat korang sume. Aku, my baby, marini, oda and abg kamali tengok citer. Film muzikal yang aku boleh katakan memang besh! brilliant and of couse para pelakon yang sempo tetapi menghayati watak sehingga kami sume boleh megesat air mata di pipi. Dari awal cerita, penonton dihidangkan dengan alunan muzik dan lagu kumpulan ABBA. Mengim bas kembali zaman aku sekolah dulu. my dad sangat sukakan lagu2 kumpulan ni. sampaikan aku juga boleh menghafaz beberapa lirik lagunya. Penangan lagu2 ABBA sememangnya menghidupkan jiwa 70-an. hahahha....berbalik pada filem MAMMA MIA! yang diatayangkan kat panggung sekarang, aku bagi filem ni 4 bintang. Garapan cerita menerusi bait2 lagu begitu indah. Lakonan berkesan beberapa pelakon seperti Meryl Streep, Pierce Brosnan, Colin Firth, Stellan SkarsgÄrd, Christine Baranski, Julie Walters, Amanda Seyfried dan Dominic Cooper menghidupkan jalan cerita di sebuah pulau indah di Greece ini. HUh! setting memang cun habis. Bak kata my fren Oda, cam Vogue Living! memang betul..korang tengok sendiri filem ni.kalau aku cerita kat sini tak syok lah kan..bagi yang tak gi tengok agi tu. aku cadangkan korang tengok. Memang besh!!!!